Icy Advent Freedom

Icy Advent Freedom

Here’s a true-story Advent Tale with a difference. The sky was gradually darkening.  She sat on the deep window sill in her bedroom, hawk-like in her vigilant perch.  Sometimes it seemed to her that from this position she could view the entire world.             Clusters of young stars were popping into existence, their neon dust [...]

Porn & relationships: When Three’s a Crowd

Porn & relationships: When Three’s a Crowd

I wonder how many relationships are marred, possibly even destroyed, by a partner’s addiction to porn. Typically the male partner. Is it a harmless addiction – far less harmful than, for instance, alcohol, drugs, gambling or having compulsive affairs? Or is watching porn in itself on a par with having an affair, in the sense [...]